I admire with great envy women with wimpy spaghetti arms. As a swimmer, however, I will never be one of them. Casually shopping at lunch today, the sales woman, grabbed a shirt I was looking at and said, “Vaya, tu tienes mucho hombro” and grabbed the article back because she did not have it in a larger size. Translation “Wow, you have really big shoulders”. Thanks Lady, you should know that I am very sensitive about my shoulders. It wasn’t so much her grabbing the article of clothing out of my hands as her facial reaction to the size of my shoulders compared to the rest of my body.
As a swimmer your shoulders and back grow so that you have this tiny waist and this monster amazon upper body. It’s proportionally weird and just not attractive. Unfortunately there is no way to get rid of this characteristic. I didn’t swim for over 18 years and I still have big arms/shoulder/back.